An excerpt from my book Our Spiritual Awaking
Life is not about being self-centered but living a life of love and peace in service to mankind.
To understand why we are here on earth requires letting go of the narrow minded dogma we have been told by our peers, teachers, the media and organized religion. Before we are born, our spiritual guides help us choose who our parents, friends, love interests, and spouses will be, our home environment and where we will be living, our life mission, and the lessons we will need to go through in order to grow spiritually and resolve our Karma. This is why everything that happens to us in our life time is for a reason and not an accident. We are responsible for how we think, feel, and react to situations. When people hurt us intentionally or unintentionally we are still entitled to be reasonably compensated for damages, and other expenses. And once that is done we are to move on by letting go of the blame, anger, hate, frustration, and resentment and forgive our transgressors.
However, some people are unable to let go and instead allow the incident to become a grudge that they keep thinking and talking about over and over again. What this does is (1) keeps us trapped in the negative energy of the situation and (2) it stops the flow of blessings from Spirit until you let go of the past. Here is a prayer that can help release old memories:
Dear God, please remove this memory forever from my mind now as I don’t need it. Instead fill me with your love, peace, and healing. Thank you God. Amen.
When we die we reunite with our passed over family, friends, and pets. Our guide is with us as we go through a life review of our earth life and discussion about what we learned and did not learn. If we succeeded in learning all our lessons of love, service to others, acceptance of all people for who they are, and forgiveness, we then move on to our next higher spiritual level. If we did not then we have to reincarnate with our soul group to do the save lessons over until we learn. Even the so called evil souls such as Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, are still given chance after chance to reincarnate and learn. And if they repeat the same evil behaviors, they end up creating more karma they will have to balance out regardless how many lifetimes it takes.
Once we are born we are not allowed to end our life contract early by suicide. When a person commits suicide, the person usually does not pass over right away. They hang around to see the sorrow they have caused to others. When they return home they have to make plans to return to finish out their earth contract. And if we know someone who has committed suicide, we should pray to God to give the soul the strength and fortitude to complete his or her earth contract after reincarnating.
We reincarnate lifetime after lifetime with the same family member’s in different roles in order to balance out our negative karma. For example, let’s say a man from another lifetime hated and mistreated his sister. So in a future lifetime the brother agrees to be the father and his sister the daughter so he can give his sister the unconditional love as a parent. However, after they both reincarnate, the now daughter repeats certain behaviors as a teenager from the previous lifetime that triggers her current fathers subconscious past hatred of her and he ends up mistreating her again. The daughter senses that this has happened to her before and asks God for help and begins having dreams about her past life. When she confronts her father he gets mad and tells her she’s crazy. The daughter says nothing more and suffers in silence until she leaves home. Many years later the daughter heals and forgives her father even though he never acknowledges or apologizes for his actions. The daughter decides not to reincarnate with him again, leaving him to learn his lessons with other people in a future lifetime.
We also plan out how the end of our life of earth will be. Most people don’t think about the end of their life because death scares them. Myself, after my spiritual awakening I stopped fearing death after learning I have already gone through all different types of death experiences. So when it is time for me to pass over, I will do so during sleep.
But until the time comes when we all pass over, we need to be living our life purpose and making earth a better place to live. We also need to be thanking God everyday for the blessings in our life and sending out love, and peace to everyone around us. After all, that is what life is about.